Same as Willow, i got a call from the clinic just recently (babies are now 6 months), to see if i had a baby... It seems that once they "get you pregnant" they dont want much more to do with you. Its a bit disappointing with the amt of time you spend with them, through blood tests, scans, and heart break. You just get rolled into another number, and they drop you and send you on your way after that first HB check.
I think it would be great to have a support/parent group or even just a pg group, for those who have used IVF/fertility treatment. An IVF pg, i feel, is a very diff journey than a pregnancy that is achieved naturally. I always felt different than my pg friends, i didnt want to but i did. Even though i knew i was so lucky, i did always feel jealous of those around me who fell pregnant at the drop of a hat, even though by this time i was pregnant myself.
Sushee, i would love to think that millions of dollars would help us all, but it still doesnt change attitudes of those around us. How many times i have been asked, are they ivf?? I just wish people could have more of an understanding, and for it to not be so "not normal."
And it would be nice to have a group where we could just chat, discuss aspects of birth choices, feelings and anxieties.