I'm due for my 20 week scan early Jan and I am undecided. At I really wanted to find out - I thought it would help both me and DH with bonding with my child. But DH really doesnt want to know yet - even though I think it would help him bond with the baby. He hasn't been so interested in this pregnancy and I'm sure it would help.

But now after reading Bec's comment that sometimes they get it wrong........ that would be awful! Not because it really matters whether its a boy or girl, but because you would have built up this image of your child and then you'd have to readjust all your thoughts. CLothing doesnt really matter for me because I figure boy or girl, they are wearing orange and purple!!