I am very much leaning towards Carlo for the middle name. I do like Carla for a girls name though. But that could change.

Will be nice to know the sex. The only sad thing was that we couldn't tell him the sex of the baby before he died. Even in his final days, when he made little sense and talked little, he still managed to ask what we were having...boy/girl. I hope he is looking down from heaven and can see for himself when the baby is born.

The chinese baby predictor thing has guessed all 3 of my kids correct so far, and would seem that this one COULD be a boy. I think the timing of sex would seem to favour a boy too (about a day before ovulation).

Limeslice...thanks for your kind words. My partner is just so so sad, he can't stop crying. All I can do is be with him right now.