I know exactly what you are going through, and I'm sorry. It sucks! This is my parents first grandchild and I've seen them maybe 4 times through the whole pregnancy. Mum has called me about 5 times, after I've called another family member upset that she isn't involved. She actually hasn't even got anything for the baby yet. Not that i expect it you know, but when my bestie was pregnant she went out shopping with her all the time and bought her little things here and there and my mum didn't even both to get anything for my baby shower. It hurts, i know, especially when I ask her to come visit and help me get things ready and she says no. She says she is coming up net Tuesday but I suppose as Shel said believe it when I see it...

So I know what you are going through. I really hope she gets better through the pregnancy. But as others have told me, try not to stress about her too much... you're creating your own family now and if she chooses not to be involved then it is her missing out on this time in your life. I know nothing replaces a mum, but maybe you could adopt-a-mum so to speak, if you have any friends or your mums friends or someone that you can talk to and ask for advice etc.

I don't really know what to say to help to be honest as I'm going through the same thing but I am thinking of you and I hope she comes around.