Thanks Manta, Webbmeg, kell and Tanstar,

Its nice to hear some positive stories about finding out.

Well i asked DD again last night.... Didnt really get an answer. When i asked if he wanted to find out he said 'no' and when i said why? he didnt know why

So i put my case forward and said we would only have to think of 1 name (as we have NOOOOO ideas at all... not even a first name for either a boy or girl)... well i like Alexi for a girl but he says no because dd#1's name also starts with a A.

then he said i could find out and not tell him... but i want to decorate ! lol.... unless i keep the nursery room door shut for 5 months? that could work what a surprise then!

mmmmm

i do agree thought it would have to be both know or no one knows. oh i dont know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! RAHHHH