I've so been where you are honey!!!! My DH was of the opinion that he didn't mind finding out, but would go with whatever decision I made. So you know what I did? I asked all my friends, family, workmates etc what they would do, and made up a little poll to see which side won out, because seriously, it was doing my head in. And the end result - not to find out. By one vote. So that settled it. But then, 6 weeks later, I spotted a piece of paper at work where I had rang up about a 3D scan and realised that I could get it done that week if I wanted to. Out of all the crap sitting on my desk at work, thats the one piece of paper that jumped out at me. So we got the 3D scan done, and STILL didn't find out!!!! pmsl... some things just aren't meant to be..