Good on you for making that decision - I found out by mistake or fate which ever way you want to look at it at 32weeks - we chose not to tell anyone outside of the immediate family - I have to say I was devastated at the time as I really didn't want to know but we had a 4D scan and they put it on a video, we took it to the IL's (as we only had a DVD player) and low and behold the image was clear as day - so ironically we all found out at the same time - especially given that we had asked them not to go in that area and specifically not to tell us the sex - I got over it pretty quickly though - I had a gorgeous baby boy (which was my gut feeling the whole way) to look forward too - this time around I think we'll find out, but keep it too ourselves