should i go to her engagement?

[Jas]

It is hard to comment as we don't know exctly what your history is. But when you first held your baby girl in your arms could you imagine not going to her engagement party years down the track.

I would go as I can't imagine a few hours at a party could cause that much damage but I can imagine not going could cause a lot of damage.

You said you and your daughter used to be best friend sbut now things have changed, they could change back the otherway again.

[Lulu]

wow Sue. After reading that I can see why you want to distance yourself. I think you do deserve some peace, I would like to be left alone for awhile after all that too.

Your kids are older now, they can look after themselves. It must be awful knowing that going to that party will very likely open you up to another round of dramas and being treated badly.
Yeah they are your children.....but I don't think there is anything in the laws of parenting that say you have to be treated like a doormat for the rest of you life because you are a parent.