Neenie big big long cuddles honey...
Now, I haven't read all the replies just yours. It concerns me that you mention suicide. Do you feel that you want to hurt yourself? If you do you need to reach out. I understand life seeming so so dark that there is no light. But there is ALWAYS light. Always. Sometimes we need help to see it - but it's there.
If you feel very desperate I want you to pm me. I can help you with some contacts. Your baby and your daughter need you my love. And you know what? You need them. You are a family. Not the family that you envisioned. Not at all how you thought it. But you can do this. You really can.
Keep talking in here. Keep reaching out.
Now, your partner is in prison for domestic violence. Sweetheart that means he has hurt you so badly that he is now a criminal. He is violent. He has hurt the Mother of his babies. It's not okay. Leave this to the police. Now is the time to be strong. I believe that DOCS could help you with accomodation or even relocating you.
YOU have got away from this man for now. That is a blessing. Now you need to stay away. Men who hit women very ery very rarely change. You are so very young witha wonderful wonderful life ahead. You can have a relationship with another who will not hurt you, emotionally, spiritually, physically or financially. There are wonderful parters out there.
I want you to pm me if you feel you can't cope and I will help you with contacts. Alternatively you can reach out to your largest local hospital. The police that are dealing wit your case and I am sure they will have referred you to a social worker.
This is a dark time but it WILL get better. sending you love and support.
You can also apply for the relationship crisis support group here on BB...
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