I do see what he is doing but i don't want to instill in any of my kids my hate for this man and i do realise the importance of know your real father. If only he would work with me on this and stop thinking about himself. At this point in time the only things i know about his where a bouts is his mobile number and an email address he tells me nothing about his life only what he is going to do to mine. I will be confident when i have seen my solicitor she is so busy my next appointment is 4th of sept so i'll let you all know how i go. So for now i fear him.