Can you get an AVO against him. It would send a strong message that you wont take things lying down. I take my hat off to you and the way you are handling this.

I'd feel pretty ripped off too Miranda.....and I'll be doing the same as you, concentrating on the kids for a while first. I really think differently about things now, I've managed to not be soooooo p1ssed about how things have turned out and am on the move forward again