Katypila -women need a man like a fish needs a bicycle!
this is so true! just remember that you are worth infinitely more than your ex. he's a shmok and that's all there is to it. there is more to life than sex with a bloke. even just on your own you can pretty often get a much better result lol. and to be honest (i don't know abut others here) but i totally lost interest in any form of sexual stuff in first trimester..

one thing that i was told to help get alot of things out and stop internalizing them, was to write it all down on a piece of paper, it doesn't matter if it doesn't make sense or is irrational or *****y or anything, just to get it all out. then rip it up and burn it. like a liberation of your feelings and thoughts.

can you talk to your mum or dad or siblings (if you have any) about your depression? or a best friend or confidant? and then there are some counsellors that are really great too!

do let us all know how you're getting on. you're right. people are really lovely here. and that includes you too. i sometimes post just to get my thoughts in order. it really helps. don't worry about how people might react to what you have to say, because we are all here to support you. and when you're ready you'll find yourself supporting people from your font of wisdom too.

just remember you are beautiful inside and out and i know how cheesy that sounds but just by what you've said already we can all tell that you are a caring and wonderful person.

love liv x