Thanks Divvy, just a question though, if DP and I come to an agreement on how much he should pay, do I just let CSA know that that's what's happened, so they can adjust their files and let centrelink know??? Or do I just let centrelink know and DP rings CSA? He has given been giving me extra money to help out with petrol and things (Brendan sees specialists in Perth) so I can trust him to give me the money... there is no problem there.
i'm not sure how the system works.

Thanks heaps