Dee, My oldest maddison was still having 2 sleeps a day the month before Prep & I was freaking, she managed, was exhausted the first few months, but she loves school now!!

Apparently I was much like your daughter, I wanted to always wear the most uncoordinated outfits & my Mum would end up in tears because she'd have some clothes for me to wear & I'd refuse them put on these strange outfits... In the end mY Dad told her to just let me wear whatever!!!!
I now let Maddy choose her own clothes when we go out & always tell her he looks good, even though I am often left wondering what the???....

But making her take ownership for her decisions is a great way to get results....

I know my DD#2 is gonna be a handful, she's already stubborn & determined....

Good Luck!