Update: Another meltdown this morning, once again over clothes. So far its been okay cause she has no problem at all with school clothes. Wednesday is a day off school for the preps and I had jobs to do and we were getting ready to go. Then comes the clothes drama. She ended up on the floor screaming cause i made her wear the clothes i picked. she had picked her own clothes and even they weren't right so in the end i said stuff it this is what your wearing.

So she's screaming in time out, then statrts yelling how horrible I am and that she doesnt want to live here anymore. So i smack her. so she screams, and I said you either stop or you're not going to the birthday party on friday, so she screams MORE. I walked away and went to call the Doc to make an app to see about a referal to a psychologist and she heard me. In the background all the receptionsit could hear was my 5 years old screaming like she was being beaten up. I was so embarrassed.

Anyway, ended up in us both crying AGAIN.

Took her to the docs and got the referal so thats the next step. So not coping with this same issue after 4 years