Hey Dee

I think it's great if Ashlea sees someone...some kids do need some extra help...it's not because they are little demons but sometimes they have really strong temperaments (which are fantastic things when they learn to control them) and just need some extra help with things like self-regulation and self-control.

I think you're a fantastic Mum to be searching for answers...rather than waiting...early intervention is such a key to success...so I think you're doing a great thing.

Regarding the Paed., to be honest, I'm not surprised. I'm often shocked about how little some doctors know about certain things in child development. They certainly know alot about medical stuff, but some of the developmental things, they are not necessarily clued in on...

I teach postgraduate Psychiatry students and are constantly amazed how little input they get about the impact of developmental difficulties (including sensory problems) and learning difficulties on emotional and behavioural development.

So...just as much as I respect Paed's...I do know that their knowledge is not necessarily expansive in every area.

I encourage you to seek out a Clin. Psych. that specialises in kids...and perhaps one who knows about developmental issues (including sensory stuff). And maybe even a Clin. Psych who has worked closely (or even better still...works closely ) with OT's. Don't be scared to question them prior to making an appointment about their experience in the area that Ashlea is having difficulties in...

Videoing some stuff is not such a bad idea, you know!!! Maybe not for the first session, but maybe ask the therapist if they would find it helpful...sometimes they do, sometimes they don't...

Wishing you all the best...there WILL be an answer out there for you...I'm sure of it... hang in there...