Dee not much to add.. well really just wanted to say hope things get sorted really soon.

I am having a similar battle with my 13mth old, although her problem is she only wants to wear 1 outfit, but the outfit changes each week or so. We have a bit of crying and trying to undress ourselves once dressed but she gives up quickly (thank god). However I have to hide the 'favourite' outfit or she will drag it out of the laundry basket and try to put it on herself.

I can honestly say I would struggle in your possi, as would any mum. It is really hard just managing day to day if your on your own but to bundle in the whole lets get dressed circus... well big claps for you being such a brilliant mum!

Oh on the child psychologist thing... they can actually do sensory testing stuff or refer you out, so don't stress to much about the negative nancy of a paed you saw last time. Having your child see a psych does not make her defective or you a bad mum either (lots of mums & dad's think this!). Hell in my opinion it makes you a bloody good mum!... you are taking the time and effort to help your child in every way possible.