yeah it really does sound like sensory processing thing - thank god it's a real thing and someone who actually posts it has it.

and you so hang in there! Remember when everyone melts down that you are more than entitled to, as you doing are doing the job of two parents. So no guilt there, it's always harder to be patient and realistic about things when one is tired, I've handed discipline/decisions about my oldest DD to my DH today, as we've been arguing all day (my DD and me), as soon as I said "That's nice, but ask Daddy he's in charge of you today" she went off and has been playing beautifully every since... WTF! AAAAAH!
Anyway, very keen to see what happens and how you go with the whole sensory thing, remember you know your daughter best and if some practitioner doesn't listen to you, ifyou can get another one!

I just asked re. ex-idiot to see if it was a "consistent" or non-environmental thing. It definitely sounds like it's how the clothes feel whatever her reasons.

Reading between the lines, she does sound great though! I just know her and my eldest would have a ball together!