Soul, this is why I am so happy I have boys!! What a hard situation you are in. Like you said, your DH and you started dating at a similar age and a similar age gap. It's so hard to explain to them that it was different huh! I say to go with your mother's instinct hun, it serves us mum's very well indeed. I do think that the age difference is something which should be judged case by case and not as a blanket thrown across the ages IYKWIM. As we know kids all mature differently and some are definitely older than their years. BTW... I was a virgin until 18 and my first was Joshua's dad... I think it's important that they know it's not a bad thing at all to wait until they are really sure about it all. All the best with this one hun.
Last edited by Ozziehoffy; September 8th, 2007 at 08:21 PM.
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