I hav eto say debbie , i am in the same boat, after" doing it" aroung the "right" times we have missed again. Im so sad and depressed that I just want to give up. I thought surgery was going to fix it and it would just work like the surgeon suggested it might!!! Me and DH are never on the same page when its time and generally argue, then that makes it worse. I just cant stand it anymore, and am ready to just give up. Im hoping that my 'mood' will go away once AF has left the building again... I know I havnt helped in any way in fact Im just as down as you at the mo, so am really sorry. Just want you to know you are not alone in this....hugs to you at this most awful time. Whats worse for me at the mo, is my good friend has just told me she is going to try again and thinks she is prego as she is 3 days late, I just wanted to cry... o well, what do you do ah.....