how many of them know of your losses?

i guess one thing i have made sure of is to let the friends that i would normally have visited straight away know that i might struggle a little, it's not about them, it's about what i have lost. i've not had anyone give me anything but support - and even when i've gone to see them they let me take it at my own pace...

you will alawasy feel a sense of loss and frustration at your situation - walk away and get some time to yourself if you need to, then go back - no one will hold it against you

good luck with coping, and i hope your dream of holding number two in your arms is fulfilled very soon

BG