Issy - I know, I hate it when people say you're only young, it will happen. The other one I hate is when people say stop trying and it will happen or don't stress about it, it will happen. Oh that makes me mad coz how can you stop trying or stressing when it is something you really want so badly. Notice it's always seems to be people who say it who have never had any problems TTC or had any miscarriages!!

I totally know what you mean about BD-ing becoming a chore when you're TTC. I was just saying to DH last week that I hate the fact that every month we have to BD at the right time just so we're in with a shot at getting pregnant. It's hard when you're not really in the mood and you have to force yourself to do it. My DH jokingly said to me that I only use him to BD when Im ovulating. It's really hard for us coz he works shift work and gets one day off a week at the moment and we never see each other so then I start stressing about what if we dont get to BD when Im ovulating. Sometimes I even have to wake him during the day to BD coz he's asleep after night shift. Of course he isn't in the mood to do it then but it's the only time we really get to.

Wouldnt it be great if we got our BFP's together and had healthy bubs!!! Im actually due to ovulate anyday now so fingers X'd this will be our month.