Hi, I know how you feel. I have had 2 m/c in the last 9 months. Strangely, I would have been due with the first one at the time I m/c with the second. It was only 6 weeks ago that it happened and Im feeling realy sad because this week would have been the week that we were going to share our news with everyone. I have had 5 people close to me announce their pregnancies in the last year. My sister included, her bubs is 4 weeks old tomorrow. My sister in law is also due in 7 weeks. She and her husband were trying for 2 years, the same as DH and I, but fell pregnant in July last year. That was the worst, because although I was happy for her, especially after trying for so long and this being her 1st (I already have 1), she had finally done it and it just made me realise how long it had been since we started TTC. I think it was worse seeing other people pregnant rather than seeing their babies, for some reason. I think for me its because I have forgotten what it feels like to have a baby growing inside you and the joys of pregnancy, but I have not forgotten what its like to have a child. Anyway, I know that it sounds awful to feel this way, but I dont think Its because we are awful people, just human.
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