Just popping in again to wish you all good luck on your TTC journeys

Nic - I am soo, soo sorry for your loss. I don't know what else to say. You have had such a rough time. I truly hope you get some answers soon so that when you decide to try again there might be some sort of plan in place. Have your Drs cosidered trying asprin/clexane for next pg?

Kirsty - special hugs to you too. I really hope you and DH can sort through this and come to a decision that you are both cofortable with. Loss of a baby does put so much strain on marriages it is unbelievable. I know my DH was very anxious about us trying again for fear of how we would hold up as a couple. Don't ignore your own heart - honestly, will you ever be truly happy if you don't try again for another child?
Make sure your DH knows that too - I don't mean that to "bully" him but how is the future going to be for you both if you are still longing for something you can't have.
Hopefully the specialist appt at RWH will help put things in perspective. Maybe if there is "medical plan" in place for the next pg, DH will feel more comfortable about it all. Best of luck for you both

Michelle - just wanted to send you big hug - sorry this round of clomid didn't do the trick - hopefully next time will be the "one". Glad to hear work is a good distraction

Naomi - glad you got the all clear from your scan. "free fluid" just means fluid floating around in your abdominal cavity. There is not meant to be any (so good for you that there wasn't) - its presence can have lots of causes eg peritonitis,ruptured cysts, bleeding internally etc etc. Sounds like a good plan to let your body sort itself out before TTC again. I hope the next couple of mths fly by for you!

Sorry to everyone else - hard to keep up with this thread but hope you all get that precious BFP very soon!