Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ May 08

[AJC]

plc - love it! I do usually have a cup in the morn with my brekkie (cold) but I do occassionally have a warm mug at night. Interesting, maybe having a taste for milo is my body's way of telling me something.

megsmum - Glad you had a nice time in Singapore. Sorry about the BFN. I starting taking B6 this cycle for my LP. Had 10 day LP last month and I'm on 11dpo this month and temp still high, still no sign of af. Don't have any preggie feelings but I am just happy that I have a longer LP this cycle. Good luck and as you say, at least if you identify a problem you can treat it.

[mollycat]

Jen - I can look after up to 7 kids under the age of 12 kids each day with a limit of 5 under school age, at the moment I have my own son (11), three school kids (one after and two before - 8, 8 & 6) and up to 5 littlies a day, depends on the day, the youngest is 8m and the eldest is 4, I seem to have a lot of 2yo and have 11 kids on my books. My "work day" starts at 7.30am and finishes at 6pm except for Thursday when I finish at 8.30pm. Long hours, but it pays the bills. I've been doing day care since 1995 although I did have a couple of years off when I had my second son, (i had trouble ttc him and started spotting at 8w, panicked and quit on the spot, but at least I kept him). I have a couple of new families due to start in the next few weeks, hopefully most of the reno will be done by then. I have an eight seater car and we go visit other carers or parks,or play centres to escape, then I bring them home and they go to sleep along with all the noise, which is wonderful, actually I have two 2yos and the 8mo asleep now.

My temp is still being weird, I usually have temps of 36.0 to 36.4 before O (sorry don't know conversion) but they have been running at 36.7, 36.8, should be o'ing in the next few days, but don't know what will happen to them then. Really got me confused.

AJC - maybe i should swap to milo, i seem to be drinking a lot of tea at the moment, can't be too good for me. I've always enjoyed a hot milo and occasionally will have one before bedtime, lovely on cool nights.

Vanaithi - sometimes our partners just don't want to play the game, I feel that at times it must be a drain on them too, having to perform on demand, or at the right time, sometimes you just need to focus on your relationship (and if you're sneaky you can do it at O). TTC and BFN's takes a lot out of both partners in a relationship. I know my DH used to feel he was only good for one thing, we've learned that there is more to life then that and I know that he wants another baby just as much as I do

PLC - just wanted to send you some not that you need them cause you'll be complaining soon about not fitting into any of your clothes.

I have to get back to work now, the boys will be awake soon, then I have to go out to my shed and size up the kitchen we have in storage and work out just where the builders have to put in the new kitchen window. There putting my weatherboards on the walls at the moment. Noisy but exciting.