Van - I understand what you mean about Dh's not being co-operative. And I really get the feeling like I'm using him for his sperm sometimes, especially when it's clear I'm not actually turned on, etc. We decided to start TTC again last week and I'm coming up to my fertile time, so it's been a case of DTD every day atm. Monday it was great, still exciting because it had been a while. Yesterday neither of us really felt like it, but felt that we *should*, and today I surprised DH in bed when he came home from work. I suppose it's a matter of finding what works for you, and both having the same views and feelings about it. It's going to be okay for him when you're both making love 'just for the sperm', if you both understand that you are't always going to feel like it, and sometimes it's one of those thigns you're doing for love, just in a different way Wow..that was rambly of me..

Plc - glad to hear that about milo! I never knew that..just knew it was meant to have a lot of useful minerals and vitamins, and no caffiene. Extra motivation for drinking milo Always welcome.

I have no idea about my cervial position..I've never actually tried to feel it, but I feel like it would be uncomfortable for some reason. And I don't temp either -_- I'm lazy with TTC..I can usually feel for a couple of days when I'm going to ovulate, I get pains..so I tend to think 'Well, I know when my fertile period is coming'. I just hope I'm right!

Lisa xx