Milla - this is only my personal opinion: I went to a psychologist after my second m/c last year. It totally did not work for me - I felt like she just starred at me waiting for me to talk. I think I was expecting someone who would talk about feelings and how to handle them. I considered going to see someone else as I figured this woman was just a looney but then I stumbled upon this website and this forum/thread in particular and I found talking to other people who had actually been through what I was going through (or similar) helped the most. The ladies in here have been the most supportive people and important people in my ttcaml journey. I don't mean to sound ungrateful for my DH and family but the ladies in here are who helped me through my darkest days.