Dee, so sorry to hear that. How disappointing for you. Hoping for you anyway, if not this time then very soon.
Blessedatlast, hi, lovely to 'meet' you. Six months is a big milestone. What a big time for you - deciding to TTC, starting a new job, and your angels' 6 month anniversary. Hope things happen a lot faster for you this time.
AFM, feeling down. Always seem to be lately. I've been sadder and sadder going to my daughter's day care to drop her off and pick her up on thursdays, as no one has ever mentioned Luca except for the centre manager who I asked to let people know. So today I showed a couple of the carers my photos of Luca. One said 'don't worry, you can have another one' and the other was a little more sensitive but seemed to be wondering why I was showing her. I just need a bit of special attention! I'm going back to work in August and I would have been settling Luca into day care around now. But he's not here.
Today I went to visit a mum who lost her first daughter a couple of years ago - she lives in the next street. She told me that another lady across the road just lost her first. I couldn't believe it - three of us. We must live a maximum of 10 houses from each other - I can practically see their houses from my front yard.
just popping by to rub some baby dust on all of you...
miranda is 3 and a half months old now she is 2.3kgs. and beginning the newborn fase now. hope everyone is doing well and i see some BFP for everyone soon..
love cindee..
Welcome to our thread Blessesatlast, I have read about your story in another thread, and am so sorry for your loss . Good for you for deciding to look to the future, sometimes we need to make those conscious decisions to move forward. Of course you'll never forgot your twins, but I hope that you get to hold your earth angel very soon, hoping your ttc journey is a quick one this time, you never know
Cindee, great to hear from you and that Miranda is doing well. I'm sure its been a stressful time for you over those past 3.5 months, but glad that she is now in the 'newborn phase'. Enjoy it.
Dee, how did the BT go hun, thinking of you
Beata hope you are well hun.
AFM, waiting for O to be confirmed then fingers crossed during the TWW.
hi ladies,
welcome blessedatlast. i have read your story also and just wanted to say how beautiful your little boys are, i have also just passed my baby girls 6mth birthday the time just seems to go so quickly.
thanks for all your thoughts girls but the blood test results were also negative so we have one little embryo left and then we are going to have a little break from ivf but not from ttc lol, just maybe make the whole dtd a little bit more romantic again and get my body back for myself for a little while. Hope everyone is going really well . belly rubs to all our pregnant girls and sticky vibes to all us ttc.
Dee, so sorry your embie didn't stick. I'm glad you have a plan... it must be so hard to know what to do next. I'll have everything crossed that your last embie is the one.
Berry, baby dust to you!
Nothing new from me... wish I could speed this whole thing up. The grief, the TTC...
I'm back on line! Sorry I have been away so long. Got my stitch put in last Friday and all went well. My OB kept me in until Monday on IV antibiotic drips to ensure no nasties were lurking in my system that could cause any problems and have been on couch rest all this week. He is also keeping me on oral antibiotics for 5 days every month for risk of infection - I think it's the same infection JAS was talking about in an earlier thread.
So, am on a progesterone pessary a day, antibiotics 5 days every month plus I have my stitch - surely this little one will make it to my due date right? Oh how I am praying
Jo, how did you feel after the stitch was in? I don't feel anything stitch-like "down there" but I do feel a little pressure and pain at times. Normal or not?
Dee, I am so very sorry to for your BFN this month my sweets. Lets pray that your last little embie is the one. Enjoy special together time with DH until you're ready again. We'll all be here cheering you on.
Blessedatlast, welcome to the thread and I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious babies. I hope your time with us is short and you get your earth baby very soon.
Cindee, I was actually thinking of you the other day wondering how you and little Miranda were going. So happy to hear she is doing so well.
Megan, I've got my fingers crossed for you also that this is your month hun.
mummabec, it is so upsetting when others don't acknowledge our angel babies. I had so many spats at my family for not talking about him and just expecting me to be "over it" and that's why I thank God everyday for this forum as it is a place where we can all understand and relate and hug. I am sorry you are feeling so down hun It's hard and takes so much strength and time.
Beata, we are on the count-down my darling! I hope you are resting up and taking good care of yourself for your transfer in a few weeks. I can't wait to celebrate your BFP with you. You have been a tower of strength and enouragement and now it's your turn dear friend
Jo, Rozzie and Tildy, hope motherhood is treating you well and babies are growing beautifully.
Helen and Sue, can't wait to meet your little ones!
TTC-ers, sending an enormous amount of baby dust to you all.
Dee, I am sorry to see your BFN. I hope your next cycle brings you better news.
Diana I have been watching out for your news about how the stitch placement went & so happy to see it went well! Your ob sounds sooo thorough; how great to have all that support. Yep, this baby will be in your arms safe and sound before you know it
As for how I felt after the stitch went in, I never felt the stitch as such but I did have some cramping and pressure for about a week after. I just had to check my diary for you - funny how quickly you forget!
Nothing much to report here. My girl is nearly 6 weeks old, can you believe it?! We have a sort-of routine (very much "sort-of"!) & I am still in awe that we created this perfect little girl. How I wish I could have had these moments with her big brother...
Hope you are all doing well. Helen, you must be due very soon?! Will your stitch come out while you are having the c/s?
I'll still keep my fingers crossed for your BT tomorrow anyway, hoping the test is wrong! Big hugs hunni xxx
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