thread: TTC AFTER Late Loss/Recurrent Miscarriage/ Stillbirth 2010

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  1. #1
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    Aug 2009
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    Samcougar - great to hear from you. Hope being active helps you feel more confident. I love hockey, but in the beginning it gave me a sore butt! Hope yours isn't too sore.

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    Jul 2006
    Canberra
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    Hi ladies

    Katiegirl - thanks for dropping by and letting us know your good news. It does give us hope. Your message made me cry. I think I will always be a little different after our experience but it is good to know that there is life afterwards as well.

    Aries - I think the birthday card idea is lovely and if its important to you to do that then go ahead and do it, regardless of what others may think or say. We have a collection of things to remember Ryan by as well as photos and one day I will have the courage (and time) to put them into a memory album for safekeeping.

    Gigi1- hi hun if you are reading this, I am thinking of you and DD and DH tomorrow.

    Samcougar - well done for the healthy plan. I've just joined a BB weightloss forum - we started yesterday and so far so good on the eating, not on the exercising part though! Still baby steps...

    Crumpet - good luck with the tattoo. I think it's a beautiful thing to do. DH got a tattoo for Ryan on his left arm. It is quite big and took about 3 or 4 hours to do... not my thing. I would want something smaller like yours (and quicker!). And I have my fingers crossed for you that you catch an egg this time, now that you can 'officially' try again!

    CharlieB - thanks. This TWW is sending me crazy as well but only because I really want to conceive naturally and not have to go through IVF again so I guess I have put extra pressure on myself... still it would be nice to call and cancel the appointment because of a BFP! Good luck with your TWW - are you going to test early or wait until AF is late?

    Dory - hope you are doing well and enjoying your time with the fur babies. I know mine love it when I am home all day.

    cmeglles - hope you are having a fantastic holiday and you come back with a BFP!

    to everyone else.

    Anyway, AFM, I am quite tired at the moment and feeling warmer than normal which my TCM says is probably the new herbs she has me on, but also because it is the 2nd half of the cycle. But the weird thing is my head is hot! Had my post O b/t yesterday morning so hopefully the results will be through soon so I can see what's going on. Then my CD1 b/t will probably be needed on the Monday, the public holiday, which will be a hassle trying to find a clinic that is open.

    Anyway, shower and dinner time for me. Take care all and talk soon.
    oxo

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    Oct 2009
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    *sigh* I knew there wasn't much chance, but I still did a HPT yesterday - no second line. Nice strong control line, but nothing else. I'm getting scared of Friday. I want so many things that I can't change...

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    Feb 2010
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    Hi everyone,

    Gigi - thinking of you and your precious little angel today xx

    TeniBear - huge to you sweetie. It completely sucks I know. I hope that Friday brings you some answers and some peace. And that second line will come when the time is right.

    Chez - for you this cycle!! I really hope you have to cancel that appointment! No early testing for me, I don't want to risk getting a BFP and it ending up being a chemical or something, I don't think I could cope!! I'll probably wait til the weekend or Monday even, if AF hasn't shown her face by then.

    Hi Sam, good to hear from you. good luck with the weight loss. Hope you enjoy the hockey x

    Hi crumpet - I think your appointment at the hospy was today? I really hope it was helpful for you xx And I hope you have been enjoying "sexy time"!

    Big hello to everyone else xx

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    Sep 2009
    watsonia north victoria
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    Aries- you are braver than me, I would love to get a tattoo for Riley but i can't even bring myself to pick up the phone and make an appointment
    im with u on that one hun!!! would love to get one done but i dont think i have the balls to do it!!!

    Crumpet - good luck with the tattoo. I think it's a beautiful thing to do. DH got a tattoo for Ryan on his left arm. It is quite big and took about 3 or 4 hours to do... not my thing. I would want something smaller like yours (and quicker!). And I have my fingers crossed for you that you catch an egg this time, now that you can 'officially' try again!
    thanks hun!!!! hopefully we got out ***** together and have cought that egg!!!!
    good luck with ur BT reuslts!!
    *sigh* I knew there wasn't much chance, but I still did a HPT yesterday - no second line. Nice strong control line, but nothing else. I'm getting scared of Friday. I want so many things that I can't change...
    big hugs hunni..... it wont be a easy day but u will get through it ur a strong cookie!
    Hi crumpet - I think your appointment at the hospy was today? I really hope it was helpful for you xx And I hope you have been enjoying "sexy time"!
    it sure was!!! oohh well i dont know if id say im enjoying my sexytime but its defiantly happening!!!LMAO!!!!!


    ok so i had my appt at the hospy......

    and im a nut job, i barely got through the front doors of the clinic area and i started like u wouldnt believe!!! how embarassement!!!

    so anyways talk to mary about everything and she is refering me onto SIDS and KIDS and they will contact me about setting up a time for my first session...i also complained about our privacy breach and she is getting the patient liason person to contact us too....

  6. #6
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    Jul 2006
    Canberra
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    Hi everyone

    TeniBear - I'm so sorry for your BFN hun I understand completely how you feel. Sometimes I feel so full of despair but I know in my heart that feeling that isn't helping me fall pg, but still it is so hard to feel positive all of the time. It's just so unfair and exhausting this whole TTC journey. I feel like screaming out: Haven't we been through enough? I want this ride to stop so I can get off! But I don't... maybe it would make me feel better if I did? Anyway, I really hope and pray that your BFP comes soon. Hugs for Friday. I will be thinking of you.

    CharlieB - that's very strong of you not too test, but I know what you mean about a false positive. I am going to try to follow your example and wait until I am officially late, although with my cycle being a bit all over the place at the moment I am not quite sure when that is. But I figure I will give myself 14 days post O and then I will expect AF but I have my fingers crossed that she won't come. Here's hoping for both of us

    Crumpet - your trip to the hospy sounds like you got some stuff achieved. I haven't had to go back since the birth. I am not sure I could do it without ending up in a sobbing mess. I have decided that when I do fall pg again I will not use that hospital if I can avoid it. Too many bad memories for me. I hope the SIDS and Kids counsellor can help you and you find someone you can relate to. We saw one and didn't really connect with her - she was very nice but didn't understand our situation and that was important to us both. I was much happier with the psych that my GP referred me to.

    AFM, had a day away from work at a training seminar which was a nice change of pace and much less stressful. The heat seems to have reduced since reducing the dose of my herbs so my TCM was right (she normally is!). So I am feeling better for that. And DH is home tonight - he's been away since Monday morning, so I am pretty happy about that.

    Take care and babydust to all!
    oxo

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    Sep 2009
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    Crumpet - your trip to the hospy sounds like you got some stuff achieved. I haven't had to go back since the birth. I am not sure I could do it without ending up in a sobbing mess. I have decided that when I do fall pg again I will not use that hospital if I can avoid it. Too many bad memories for me. I hope the SIDS and Kids counsellor can help you and you find someone you can relate to. We saw one and didn't really connect with her - she was very nice but didn't understand our situation and that was important to us both. I was much happier with the psych that my GP referred me to.

    AFM, had a day away from work at a training seminar which was a nice change of pace and much less stressful. The heat seems to have reduced since reducing the dose of my herbs so my TCM was right (she normally is!). So I am feeling better for that. And DH is home tonight - he's been away since Monday morning, so I am pretty happy about that.

    Take care and babydust to all!
    oxo
    im a bit worried i wont like them or something like that, but i guess i can always ask for another one.....
    the lady at the hospital said i could see my GP and get a referal to a psych if i wanted to as well, so ill see how i go with sids and kids and then do that if i need to....

    i didnt think i would have trouble going in but if did obviosuly hit a nerve..... although im the opposite i kinda want to go back there..... im not sure why, maybe the comfort of knowing the place now or what.....
    im pretty sure ill still go to my first pick, had to go to the mercy becasue of the high risk when i went in on bed rest, but im not sure yet....

    yaaay for DH being home!!!!