Welcome hope

Thanks everyone for your opinions on my problem with DH I see where all of you are coming from, and I also see that it's something that we should sort out for ourselves. I'm not out to replace Ianto, not at all, and neither is DH. He just felt like I was trying to.

We've both come up with different solutions throughout today - mine I couldn't even stick to for twenty minutes I instinctively wrote down that we'd dtd... right after I said that from now until August(ish) we're not actively trying. Just not using protection Apparently there's a difference... Intention, I suppose. He's promised that he'll be a bit more interested now

I don't mind if we're dtd for different reasons. He's said to me that he wouldn't mind me being pregnant again, he just doesn't want to try to get pregnant... So frustrating!