Oh Georgie babe!! What a cruel man to say that to you. If he considers it is just yourself and your "clouded judgement' stopping you- then surely the "problem" can be helped!!!!
So what he thinks that as soon as your body is ready that your mind will give up!!!! Oh dear- please dont let him "cloud your mind" with such neg thoughts. i personally would try and see someone else who may be open to actually helping you- he is saying he is willing- but he is not doing it with a positive out look- and that in the end will NOT help yiu inn the slightest.
Ok- maybe he is right that right now your body isnt prepared- ok- u can deal with that- but to say that it never will is not fair- you HAVE carried healthy children- and yes you may have some underlying anxiety about doing it again- but this can be healed and i honestly have no doubt in my mind that once you feel your body is ready that your mind is going to be happy and still WANT that precious baby.
Do you feel in yourslef that you want a child- or do you just want to prove you can do it again- i personally think its the first- you tried the first time- becuase you wanted another baby- and sure things have gone wrong since- but that first feeling is still there- you started trying because you want another baby. I personally wouldnt see him again- get a second opinion from another chinese medical person- or even travel another road- where do you live??? I would recomend my energy lady- and also keep with the naturaopath and maybe try homiopaths (sp) and accupucture (still chinese i think) and go from there.
Personally as someone who has been trying un successfully for nearly 5 years, yes this process does cloud thoughts and run lives- but it wouldnt be doing that if you didnt want it so much.
Another big hug to you Georgie- maybe ask your other kids- if they are aware about whats happeneing- maybe ask them- do you want mummy to keep trying? if they say yes- then go for it babe- keep doing what feels right.
xoxoxoxoxx
SB
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