Dear Georgie
I agree with SB - if this is what you truly want then dont let this man upset your plans! I have been seeing a chinese herbalist and acupuncturist for 14 months now and I truly believe she is the reason we got pg with Ethan and held onto him so long (his medical problems were totally random). I also credit her with this pg (I guess DH had a small part to play) but she just knows stuff! She told me originally that I would need 6 months treatment to get my body and mind into a space where I could sustain a pg and I was mortified that she expected me to wait that long. In actual fact she was 100% right and the 6 months went so quickly and I fell pg the first month she suggested we try! We had the same experience after losing Ethan. She said to wait AT LEAST 3 cycles before trying again and of course I ignored her and tried like mad from the first month - none of them worked. The month she told us we could try, we fell pg and she rang me 2 minutes after I tested to say "you are pg aren't you!"! I say if you trust this guy then use his skills but ignore his "spiritual advice".... just my opinion.

As for me, I have been having HCG tests every 2nd day (for my own sanity and no other reason) and my levels are good! I am having a scan tomorrow to "check for viability" (what a crass term)! I am scared to death that there will be no heart beat - please God help me have a healthy baby!

Will let you know how I go tomorrow
Love to you all
Naomi