AuntieM-- you have cranky pants? I have a certain way I wear my hair up that lets everyone I love know not to feed the bear. I was made aware of this recently. I walked out of the bathroom with my hair in pig tails all curly and frizzy ... James (my 12 yr old) and Larry (DH) looked at eachother with this 'ut oh' look and said "she's got her devil horns on. Find the chocolate." I hope you feel some extra joy and calm soon. I cant even imagine how stressed you must feel. Just want ya to know I am in your corner. Sending lots and lots of hugs and prayers your way.