Kat- I am so sorry that your sister is treating you this way. I can relate big time. Family... the ties that bind... and often gag. Your job right now is not to be a cheery auntie or enduring sister... your job is to take care of you and yours. Its hard to write off family... Lord knows I have tried and should... but for some daft reason, I still let myself get hurt by my sister and a few other family members. SO- I'm not going to tell you to do something I fail at. But, I am going to tell you to think of it this way: you are a strong woman who has been through pure hell. Maybe, in some twisted way, your sister resents that you do so well and your love with your DH is true and strong. Lets face it, a LOT of marriages don't survive what your's has. When in doubt, feel smug and superior.

Hugs
CeCe