howdy everyone.
Klee- i hope those aren't af symptoms. i still have my fingers crossed.
Mel- glad you are feeling a little better. it is such additional pain to have people not recognize your Nicholas on his birthday when they know they should. it reflects upon their own fears, and their inability to step outside themselves for the benefit of a loved one. perhaps send a card directly to their baby, and just leave them out of it if you want a relationship with the child. perhaps a card signed from you both and Nicholas.