Oh Spring I am sorry you are having a rough day. I can really understand where DH is coming from, I think it is almost natural to protect yourself "just in case" you know, he is probably just so terrified not only of himself going through losing another child but probably most of all seeing his wife who he loves with all his heart go through it. As much as we sometimes get caught up in how WE feel (I am so guilty of this), our DH's lives have been shattered as well and I think they just dont show it. If you think about it, you are scared yourself which is totally natural and I am sure he feels the same way. He is probably thinking the same way us mums do... how will we cope if we have to bury another child? I think it is great that he was honest with you and I can imagine how difficult itt was for him to do that, he wouldnt want to upset you and he knew that is was possible. I think it says alot about your relationship that he can be so honest, and that you can accept his honesty. Although, just because he is worried doesnt mean that there IS anything to worry about, he is just being cautious. Re your OB I really think only you can know what is the right thing to do, you know how comfortable he makes you feel and if you have confidence in him, maybe you should stick it out. However, you are the one with the power, this is your baby and at the end of the day after everything you have been through, you should have the option to do what YOU feel is best for you and your baby. Did you say DH was going with you during the week? Maybe wait to make any decisions until then and discuss it between you and make a joint decision then. Anyway, probably should have just waited til I speak to you but didnt want you to sit there all afternoon stressing.

Mish, nice to see you back. Sorry but I cant give any info about HCG levels cause I never had my levels done when I was pregnant with Nicholas. But, I really hope you a

Mel