I hadnt been on BB today so didnt realise what was going on but Spring explained to me what happened and I just feel awful for you. I just cant understand how someone could F*** UP so badly!!!! I agree with the other girls that your FS should be making himself available to right now, I mean they stuffed up - plain and simple - he should be "explaining" to you what has gone wrong and making the effort to put things right. It is totally not good enough that you have to wait until Tuesday to get some answers. Definitely give him the third degree, I cannot believe they gave you that pill without knowing 100% you had not ovulated!!!! I dont really know what else to say because I am absolutely dumbfounded that this has happened, and I am really that they are making you go through this, you already have enough on your plate at the moment and I wish you didnt have to go through even more S***!
Again, I am so sorry for everything. Love and :hugs: to you.
Spring - Was really nice talking to you tonight. I am so glad that lil Spring was bouncing around in there at your scan. I hope you have a good night sleep with no weird dreams
Deb - That is wonderful news about your follies and that you got jabbed into action. We are all expecting not to see you around too much over the weekend, you have better things to do
Alex - Dont feel out of place here in this thread, we are nice gals and welcome anyone who feels they need to be here. I am sorry for the loss of your angels Good luck with your NZ residency application, and I hope your GP can find some answers for you.
Tommysmum - Nice one DH! Men lack so much tact done they? People do say insensitive things, and unfortunately we all just cop it on the chin so as not to make the situation uncomfortable. Why is that we have the decency to do that but other dont? Afterall we are the ones hurting! Hope you feel a little better tonight. People need to start worrying more about whether we are ok and forget about themselves - just the way we do for them!
Bailey - Hope you are having a great holiday, sunbaking, partying, playing with DS... cant wait to hear all about it.
(Deb, meant to say...) I didnt end up getting OPKs from lullaby cause I didnt read your post until last night and figured I wouldnt get them... luckily I went to supermarket tonight and got First Response (7 OPK & 1 HPT) for $10.99 on sale - bargain huh! DH doesnt know I bought them, its a long story but I managed to sneak them in after hiding them in the letterbox for half an hour LOL. So anyway I tested and got a positive. I spoke to my "sexual councellor" Spring and have decided that I will skip DTD tonight to leave a night in between (for DHs swimmers to regenerate, sorry I know TMI) and go for it tomorrow and Sunday and maybe again on Tues to be safe, and I think we will have covered all bases. I think it is the best we can do, I hope we succeed but I am gonna try not to stress too much. Besides Lynn and I have a plan to fall at the same time so...
On a slightly sad note, when we got home last night another one of our Budgies - Charlie - had died It is a little sad but he really wasnt very well, he has been deteriorating for a while and over the weekend really went downhill, so now he is at peace and with Kenny in budgie heaven.
Oh well, guess I should go to bed I turn into a pumpkin in exactly 1 minute.
Goodnight, Mel
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Spring - glad to hear that lil spring is doing just fine - you must be so excited (and i know we are all excited for you) but it just amazes me that people ask how long you breastfeed for after a stillborn...what planet are these people on ???
Flowerchild - Again, wonderful news for you - have a "nice" weekend and go hard girl - or perhaps that should be directed at your partner !!!
Lynn - i am so sorry to hear about your news -WTF is going on with these people. When you finally speak to your FS i would demand that you get ALL answers from him directly from now on - make sure you stress your concerns on all the different answers/options you have been given and that you are paying top dollar for his services (so you want HIS services). Something positive has to come out of all of this.... i just know it will.
Will be good to meet you on Wednesday - i also go by the name of "Monica" so you will know who i am. Alternatively i could just wear my "fat dress" and you will know straight away who i am....but i don't think i will (might give over people ideas and it is way too early to tell people that i am pg). Bailey won't be there - still away (have news on Bailey below)...
Mel - well looks like you too will be busy this weekend. Good luck and have fun ! Very good news to hear and i do think that you and Lynn will be pg at the same time.... Also, sorry to hear about Charlie and Kenny - at least they are together in budgie heaven....
Alex - hope all is going well with you and hope to talk more soon. Sorry about the loss of your angels - we are all here to help each other and jump in any time (i did). No worries about people making comments - really i don't care (i actually find it funny sometimes) - you have to have a sense of humour even if the joke is about you ! I can take it really.
Heard from Bailey last night via text. She is day 38, no AF and ab cramps - HELLO - what is this telling you !!!! I said get a "f*** test done NOW !" I also said she should stop right now taking the drugs, smokes and alcohol she is shoving into her whilst on hols....LOL
Tommysmum: Thanks for the update on Bailey, it sounds very promising. When is she due back? Is she going to test while she is there or wait until she gets back. I have Hey and if you want to wear your 'fat dress' on Wednesday, you go for it girl.
Mel: It was great chatting with you last night. Hope the mexican was yummy. I think that your DTD plan for this weekend is the right one. LMAO about hiding the OPK's in the letterbox, you crack me up. Well I hope your plan went well this morning we can expect to see you around lunch hey
Jo: I think most of us felt a little out of place when we first joined, not sure if we fitted in, but honey you are part of the gang now so make sure you stick around. Good luck with your residency application but if you ever decide to come back to the best country on earth, we'd love to have you.
Lynn: How are you feeling today honey? I have had a look back through the posts over the last day or so and you have a lot to take in. Just know that I am only 15 mins away so if you need anything I would love to help. Take care babe.
Deb: Hope the race to catch the eggie is going well. I hope so much this is your month and that in a few weeks we have another graduate.
Nat, Chelle, Klee and all you other wonderful ladies, hope you are well.
I have just spent 2 hours cleaning so now it is outside to do my 'man chores' boy I can't wait for DH to come home. Only 55 sleeps to go. He isn't home this weekend but I get to see my Big sister tomorrow. She is flying back from Bangkok to Brisbane via Sydney so we are going to have breakfast together. I can't wait.
Be back after my 'man chores'
Luv Spring
PS. I think yesterday and today I am starting to feel some movements. Not convinced yet but hopefully they just keep getting stronger.
that they are making you go through this, you already have enough on your plate at the moment and I wish you didnt have to go through even more S***!
It is a little sad but he really wasnt very well, he has been deteriorating for a while and over the weekend really went downhill, so now he is at peace and with Kenny in budgie heaven. 
i just know it will.
Hey and if you want to wear your 'fat dress' on Wednesday, you go for it girl.
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