Lynn: I am sorry that things came to a head today, it must be a very emotionally charged time for you and your family. I hope it calms down soon for you.
I know exactly how you feel about not wanting your mum to stress. I know it is a totally different situation, but last year when I found the lump in my breast on my Mum's birthday, I pretended everything was ok when I felt like my world was falling apart. I still haven't told her. Whenever I had some pinkish CM this pregnancy, I haven't told my mum, I just don't want her to worry any more.
Perhaps telling everyone that you are having a break is a good idea. Gives you a bit of space to make up your mind about what you and DH want to do. If you do decide to keep TTC you can have the privacy you want and you don't have to be concerned that you are making your Mum worry.
Hey and Alex, I'll back you up sista. I'll pick you up at the airport and we can kick some butt for Lynn together.
I have been searching around for some inspirational quotes, just felt like a pick me up.
Well I found this one, not really an inspirational one, but a very true reflection I think
In this life we get only those things for which we hunt, for which we strive, and for which we are willing to sacrifice. It is better to aim for something that you want - even though you miss it - than to get something that you didn't aim to get, and which you don't want! If we look long enough for what we want in life we are almost sure to find it, no matter what that objective may be. - George Matthew Adams
Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that known's not victory nor defeat. - Theodore Roosevelt
Last edited by Spring Angel; April 14th, 2007 at 07:15 PM.
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