ozzie & berrme: my older stepsons (12 & 11) both get upset when lachlan cries. as i'm now bottle feeding him, they get to have a go and when he cries due to needing burping or just over it they get v upset and take it personally. had to explain to 11yo that sometimes babies cry for no reason. (boys were inside and lachlan crying under playmat and youngest was crying on couch) god my heart went out to him. he thought he'd done something or lachlan didn't like him.