God i keep forgetting that i want to write to you leah and have hit post reply twice now before doing so!

The sex thing is major hey, i had felt very disconnected from DH for a while now, due to not having sex for over 2 months.. i had the ok from the doc last week so we tried on Saturday night, it was great! It started out pretty sore and uncomfortable but i persevered and used lots of lube as recommended by the doc and i am really glad i did as things have improved so much, have connected again and i am back in the game! Feel more like a woman again rather than a feeding machine!
I think more than anything it was a mental thing with me with what had happened down there i just didnt feel very sexual and was v scared...