No I didn't work it out. the door was locked and shut jjust after DH left for work so it wasn't him.. tonight I am locking it before he goes and he can watch then Iwill take the key out and out it on the fridge. then I will stick smething in front of both doors that will make a noise if someones opens them lol..

As for dh and setting. I don't know whats up with my dh lately. He has always been pretty hands on with the kids but with Olivia she just won't settle for him wellnot for anyone really which kinda makes him feel better but still. Like yesterday afternoon she was crying and I was doing something and picked her up after I yelled to him to do so he thinks I should let her cry for a while so she gets used to me not running to her.. DUH. I don't have a problem with that when it is neccessary but if someone is sitting right next to a crying baby pick them up GRRR.. anyways he just sits there he doesn't try anything. I say change her position.. anything. oh I already have is the usual answer.. *sigh* so i have to stop what I am doing and take her and of course as soon as she sees me she stops. Maybe he feels a little put out as the boys always settled for both of us.. I keep telling him the more he tries the more she will get used to him when she is upset.. As for baths and nappies.. dOn't even get me started. That drives me nuts.. I hate having to ask.. BOTH parents should just change without having the other one to ask kwim? but on the other hand he is great with the boys and almost all the time knows what to do when.. Only thing that bugs me with them is he won't bath them when "I" want it done.. While it might seem selfish it puts the whole night out if it isn't done by a certain time...