Hey bec, TRish is right, considering two of those things are life threatening (dont know about the cysts) you're better of getting checked, just put Eliza in her pram and pack some snacks. Thats what i used to do when i had to go to hosp (and i had a 3yo on top of that!)

Please get in there, just get DH to meet you after work. Is there family or a friend you could drop eliza off at? if you dont want to take her to hospital with you... if i was close i'd say bring her here (but im also a stranger )

Hope you work something out