Declan just cries when we has a tantrum, but he cries and forgets to breathe. I've had to shake him, and even once i had to punch him in the chest (i know that sounds awful, i didnt punch hard, more like a push, but i had to shock in into drawing in a breath, even blowing in his face wasnt working... ill shut up now, i sound like an abusive mother!!)

Well Declan is Officially in a big boys bed, sharing a room with Xander now!! He's had 3 daytime naps and 2 nighttime naps, and had no probs yet... Xander's in jocks at night now, my boys are growing up too fast... And so's my little princess, ill get clucky again soon... even though i told DH im not even thinking about it till we have bought our house in the country...