woah Kel , there you are raising twins and a young daughter - and you come on here with the most positive upbeat approach to it all - well done , your a legend , you made me fell inspired and Im going to stop complaining ! How about some new pics of your babies ?? We want to see how the twinies have grown!

Karen - I had / have seperated tummy muscles , quite honestly i have NO IDEA what it means.. typical! .. But I do know that a few days after birth I went and did some sit ups and was in agony. tsk tsk ... Im too scared to try again , but am going on a 6km walk today ... wish me luck! I'll let you know if it was a good idea or not

Tanya - hows Lucas going?? ... as everyone says I think wrapping is a good idea. I have no idea how to do it , so now Aneta doesnt sleep wrapped up anymore.. she's got this little doona thing we zip her up in. In Poland every baby sleeps in one of these , but over here I havent seen them yet.

Rory - the fact that you aknowledge there's an issue and you want to change , is already a big step forward. I have a very difficult personality ,and half the time im living in denial blaming everyone around me.

IK - your a trooper with the b/f. Infact I think all of you breast feeding mummies are... I only tried for one day and it was so painful , so unpleasant , i didnt even consider persevering like all of you had. Well done...

Simone - gimme 5 that she's home !!!.. woohoo

Nickers - sorry to hear that your having problems with Nixon vomiting all the time But everytime I read your posts im surprised at how well you handle everything , you go out shopping with him in huge crowds , you took him on a plane trip , your breastfeeding. To me it sounds like your doing a top job !... Aneta is 4 weeks on Tuesday and I STILL havent taken her out by myself .

Ok , Junies.. im off again.. big huge hello to all of you