Trina - men really are horrible sometimes aren't they. My DH says that to me too. He has a bad habit of saying it on the worst days! The ones where I had a screaming baby & fighting kids all day. Not smart. Then if he's in a bad mood too, he'll say something like 'go on. Blame the kids'. Not the best way to get tea on the table!!
I do what SJ does when it gets too much. Write it all down. He seems to get it then, coz I can explain myself with out getting interrupted. & it's easier to put my feelings on paper than saying them sometimes.
He does love you, he's just tired. Try to remember that.
Anth has had a tooth ache for a few days now, so snaps at the kids about EVERYTHING! I tried getting him into the dentist, but they are only open Mon, Tues & Wed here. That really sux! I've told him to get out a few times now, but he is in a lot of pain & I do know how he feels. & he does apologise. I guess I can deal with it til Monday. Thats if he can get in at the dentist!
So yeah, it'll all be good soon.