oh Jols with what you went through after birth there's no wonder why its hard to relax. I am going to reveal a bit here but I was sexually abused at 14 and it took until I was married at 23 to be able to think about having something near me... even then it was painful & stressful for years after.... probably not what you want to hear, but just to let you know that even if nothing is terribly wrong anymore, its not easy to relax. In the old days they used to give women morphine to be able to have sex.

Nelly I think chiro is okay... I had better results with acupuncture with Jovie than chiro.

Today I was in the kitchen & the kiddies were playing in the house & I could see Matilda but not Jovie (I could hear her) and sudden Jovie started screaming, I ran over & picked her up & she had cut her lip & was bleeding. Poor sausage. She recovered really quickly, Matilda got her dummy for her.