HURRAH!!! back to the land of the self-settling!

Chin up, Ann - if you thought she was getting enough then thats all you can go by! as if you wouldnt be feeding her if you knew she was hungry. what an a$$hole of a GP anyways, how dare they speak to you like that!
I know how you feel about having a lot of things to deal with. so why dont you calmly sit down and write down everything that is bothering you and then write down at least 1 or 2 possible solutions for each thing. post it on here for us to help you with if you like, or show it to DH (you know men are problem-solvers by nature) and then you'll get more ideas and options so that the next time things bother you you can look at your list and try something different. most important of all, just stay positive you're a fantastic mum!