Sorry to hear about your troubles Rebecca - DH and I abstained throughout most of the pregnancy because of the previous late miscarriage. It's really put a dampener on our sex life because the libido has gone, more of my side than his. I just don't have the enthusiasm right now. We do have sex but it's not the way it used to be, feels quite awkward to be honest.

But we keep the lines of communication open and that's helped us stay close emotionally. I know it will get better for us but in this place in time my energies are tuned into my children. I'm sure once Harry starts sleeping through the night again I will get some of the pizaaz back.

Got Harry the happy hurler weighed and measured yesterday. He's 7.19kg, head circ of 43cms and wait for it.....................66.5cms long. The tyke has grown 4 cms in 5 weeks!!!!