Ness - I feel for you, but maybe she just isn't ready to move into a big bed. I am planning on keeping J in his cot for a fair while yet. Annie made some good points. The new bub won't have to be in a big cot for at least the first 12 weeks or so, (unless it is a big baby) So that will buy you a bit more time. maybe look around for a cheap second cot?? I would be booting DH up the Ar$e as you needto be doing this on a united front.

Good luck