queenie - thats nice that u got to debreif with the midwife!! i didnt lol i think it would have been helpful though as u said maybe a little later when u start thinking aboutit more... Ashas heart rate was going from 160 - 20 during contractions and we were rushed out of the birth centre to have a test where they *****ed her head to test her blood for oxygen i still have lots of what ifs but it is getting better...
lp - kfc potato and gravy is packet powder potato that u mix up with water and gravy mixture thats mixed with water and chicken "drippings" that drip off the chicken whilst its cooking and catch in a container underneath and becomes this hard chickeny fatty grease that they break up and mix in with their gravy lol.. sure turns you off when u first see it being made but u get over it lol...